The secrets to why marriages and relationships fail

January 2, 2008

Most people know themselves on a level of 3-5 %. On that low level love and relationship can never achieve great success! Most people want love, happiness, and a better life, but they don’t want to learn anything! No chance to get great success! Divorce rate: 30-50%. Separation rate: 50-75%. Cyber love failure: up to 90%. Better you learn how to get great success!

The secrets to why marriages and relationships fail revealed!

Divorce The main causes for failure are: Ignorance, arrogance, narcissism, superficial attitudes, stubbornness, laziness, rudeness, vanity, dogmatic thinking, negation of living spiritual values, focusing too much on appearance and not enough on inner life, trying to create an illusionary harmonic relationship, rejection to learn about love and life, lack of knowledge and skills for living relationship, unsolved traumas and serious conflicts from the past, unconscious inner tie to a previous partner, rejecting importance and care for personal development, disinterest in contemplative self-reflection, lack of understanding and communication, suppressing emotions and desire, not accepting mutually both weaknesses and sexual needs. – Nobody is perfect. It is not necessary to be free from all this. But it is absolutely essential to learn about everything, to improve and to strengthen whatever is necessary, and to grow to an all-sided balanced person.

Ask yourself if you are able to say to your partner: “I give my best for you and our real life together; see it as a guarantee from my mind and soul:

to understand you in your verbal and non-verbal expressions,
to support you and not to abuse your weaknesses,
to find compromises, to deal constructively with disagreements and arguments,
to be a “strong shoulder” for you when you need it,
to console you in sad moments, to encourage and assist you,
to satisfy your needs and desires in a way you feel well,
to balance my interests with your interests, to respect your feelings and emotional limits,
to clarify misinterpretation and misunderstanding,
to care for you and your being (your mind, soul, heart, desires, body, and health),
to promote your psychological and spiritual development,
to respect the rules of partnership and to communicate constructively,
to understand your dreams, thoughts and opinions, to discuss objectively with correct information,
to always give you highest priority, and to stay with you in good and bad times,
to give you opportunities and tools to realize your talents and visions and self-expressions,
to elaborate important decisions with you in a democratic way, never to force you against your soul,
to respect and integrate all your qualities as a complementary part of my being and soul,
to give highest priority to our love and always to take care of this love.”

And don’t forget: The war of the gender is a fight against (ones own) inferiority and sexual needs!

Written by Dr. Ed · Filed Under Love & Relationship

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